“Thank you for your constant love and support”

“A huge thank you for allowing me a chance to make some sort of difference in someone else’s life. You and your team have always been an absolute pleasure to work with and Nurture is a company I will always recommend!

Thank you for your constant love and support during each egg donation and for making me feel like family!

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“Words can’t explain how amazing it feels to have helped them”

4fdfc2a9b00dd7bb8c7e3a7b21ea89e3Another positive pregnancy result and our special egg donor had this to say:

“Wow! I am so thrilled and crying tears of joy, that is absolutely wonderful news. I’ve kept them in prayer since my donation. Words can’t explain how amazing it feels to have helped them. Please congratulate them for me and I wish my Angel recipient well over her pregnancy and for the future ahead. Parenthood will bring them a lifetime of joy.

Children bring happiness and blessings into families, and for me to have given her a little ‘push start’ to becoming a mother has just fulfilled my purpose “Helping Others”.

A very big thank you to the entire Nurture Team as well as the Dr’s and staff of Cape Fertility Clinic.

Hugs n Kisses from a very happy Nurture Donor xx”

“It feels so special knowing I helped someone with such a blessing”

Heart-727x409With the news that her egg donation recipient is pregnant, our awesome egg donor had this to say:

“Wowwwwwwwwww I’m sooooo FRIGGEN happy right now, this is just the best news ever,  it’s like I won the lottery or something! I’m so excited and soooo happy for the couple, I wish them all the best. May she have the best pregnancy ever and enjoy it to the fullest. May God put his blessings over this special couple.

Thank you so much for letting me know, it feels so special knowing I helped someone with such a blessing.”

Egg Donor says – “Thank you for this opportunity”

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“I am so excited and happy to be a part of such an amazing team! I look forward to being able to help a family become whole and happy.
Thank you for this opportunity.”

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give”

Yesterday I went for my egg retrieval procedure, and it really wasn’t too bad! A bit of pain but nothing that a warm bottle couldn’t fix!

After the whole procedure I think it finally hit me, what I’m actually doing. That was the 2nd proudest moment of my life (1st was the birth of my own child). Realising that I’m actually helping someone conceive a precious baby, a little angel, helping someone to give life is the best feeling ever!

TOL2 copyI also received a gift from “my couple”, a necklace with a tree on it, A TREE OF LIFE. Knowing that I’m helping them build their tree of life is sooooo precious to me, something I will forever treasure around my neck.  Its so special and I really do hope that all of this works out for the special couple.TOL2 TOL2

Thank you guys for everything you do, Nurture and Vitalab are truly so special.  Thank you to Anne too from Vitalab, she helped me and guided me through everything , you guys are definitely blessed.

Thank you for the support and love, I will definitely do it all over again!

This quote I feel is so true “We make a living by what we get, but we make a Life by what we Give

All my Love

xxxXxxx

“I can’t wait to help try and make their dream come true”

38d6f111075f984dda76705571b1c796This fabulous egg donor had just found out she’s been chosen to donate her eggs…..

“IT’S ABSOLUTELY A YES!! Please tell my recipient I can’t wait to help try and make their dream come true :-)

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Wishing you lots of festive cheer!

Miss santa clausTo all our fabulous egg donors….. we want you to remember what an incredible difference you’ve made / will make to the lives of forever grateful recipients who are heavily reliant upon someone, a special stranger to make the magic happen and their dreams come true!

Your gift really does change lives.  It can turn what can be a painful, lonely holiday like Christmas to one of incredible, sometimes unimaginable happiness! Christmas takes on a whole new meaning when there are little one(s) in the family to share it with!

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Whether your recipient’s journey has resulted in a successful pregnancy or not, your amazing gift remains the same: kind, generous, selfless and inspiring. We salute you! From the bottom of our hearts and the hearts of the couple you are giving hope to, thank you SO much!

Wishing you lots of festive cheer and to those celebrating, have yourselves a very, VERY, Merry Christmas! We hope that 2015 brings you the good fortune you so truly deserve!

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How does the egg donation process work ?

eggs3eggs4bcopyYou are a healthy young woman between the age of 21 and 34 and you have seen an advertisement or have somehow become aware of egg donation. Perhaps you have a relative or friend who has been unable to conceive and you’ve witnessed her plight and heartbreak firsthand. Or maybe you know a fabulous same sex couple or a singleton that also yearns to have a child.

No matter how you became aware or why you were initially inspired to donate, here is what you can expect once you embark on this journey as an egg donor.

First, you have to fill out a detailed application form at your preferred donor agency (make sure you are with an agency that is first class, Nurture obviously!). Typical information you would have to disclose includes your physical traits such as your height, weight, eye colour, natural hair colour; personality traits; your educational history; medical history; etc.

You’ll also be required to supply photographs of yourself as a baby, a toddler and a young child (up to the age of ten). Once you have been selected to be on the agency’s database of registered donors, this information and the photographs is what the prospective recipients of your donor eggs will have access to. The donor agency may also expect you to provide a recent photograph of yourself for their own records, but since egg donors remain anonymous in South Africa, the prospective donor egg recipients will never get to see a photograph of you as an adult or find out what your real name and contact details are.

If the agency accepts you based on your application form, you’ll have a face to face meeting with an agency coordinator to discuss moving forward. This is one of many opportunities you will get to ask all the questions you want to ask, and to discuss once again exactly what is involved in the donation process.

If you are still keen, your profile is added to the donor agency’s database and prospective recipients will immediately start viewing your profile information.

Once a donor recipient decides that YOU are the chosen one based on your profile – and this can take anything from days or weeks to months – you will have two initial appointments at the fertility clinic, one with the gynaecologist and one with the psychologist. Once the clinic receives all the results and is all is found to be in order, you will be put on a contraceptive pill for the next 6 – 8 weeks (provided that you are not already on one.)

The actual donation process will therefore begin approximately 6 – 8 weeks after that initial appointment with the doctor and psychologist.

About a week before you’ll begin treatment, you’ll have another brief appointment at the clinic to collect all your relevant medication. Please note that you as the donor do not have to pay for any of the doctor’s appointments, assessments or medication pertaining to the egg donor program. You may have to miss classes or work for some of your appointments, but doctor’s notes will be supplied for any/all visits. It is for this inconvenience, for all your petrol and for all the effort you’ve made that you will receive the financial compensation of R6 000.

On the first day of your menstrual cycle after you’ve begun taking the contraceptive, you will book an appointment for your Day 8 scan. On the third day, you will begin the daily hormone injections. On Day 8, you will have your first scan. From then until Day 12, you will receive the second and third scans. Depending on how well your body has responded to the hormonal treatment, you should be undergoing the egg retrieval procedure approximately 14 days after starting the treatment.

The Egg Retrieval Process

The actual procedure only takes about 20 – 30 minutes with about an hour recovery time at the clinic. The name of the procedure you will undergo is called an oocyte (egg) aspiration. During it, the doctor will pass a needle through your upper vagina into each ovary to extract the mature eggs. The doctor uses an ultrasound to guide him/her through the process. Since the eggs are only a tenth of a millimetre in size, they can be easily sucked through a needle. The eggs grow in follicles which are bubbles of water which are 2cm in size. The needle pierces the follicles and sucks the water out with the egg in it.

During the procedure, you will be placed under intravenous sedation for comfort called ‘twilight sedation’. It is a type of anaesthetic technique during which the patient is sedated, but not entirely unconscious. It is just like regular anaesthesia, in that it uses many of the same drugs (but in lower dosages) and is also designed to make the patient feel more comfortable, but it carries fewer risks. Although the patient may not be entirely asleep, but in a ‘twilight’ state or light sleep, the anaesthesia also relieves the anxiety on the part of the patient, ensures that the patient feels no pain during the procedure and creates a state of amnesia so that the patient won’t remember the procedure later on.

The drugs used in twilight anaesthesia are fast acting and quick to reverse, so patients can be woken up in a matter of minutes.

If you feel uncomfortable or anxious about the level of sedation, feel free to discuss it with the doctor and he will ensure that you are given extra medication to sedate you more.

After a brief recovery from the anaesthesia, you will be able to go home. Someone must be there to drive you home. Once at home, you should rest for the remainder of the day. Just relax and make sure that you stay hydrated.

Some donors experience some spotting and mild discomfort after the procedure (akin to menstrual cramps), but a general painkiller (such as myprodol) should provide adequate relief.

Donors who have completed the procedure will have to avoid having unprotected sex until the completion of their next menstrual cycle, since she will be extremely fertile. So if you do not want a pregnancy of your own just yet, just remember: no glove, no love!

Over the next few weeks, the donor agency will remain in touch with you to let you know whether your donation had resulted in a pregnancy or not.

Should you be interested in helping someone create the family they’ve longed for, get in touch with us here.

How to make a difference!

As the festive season fast approaches, people are franticly preparing for the start of the school holidays, planning their get-away, makeadifferencebraving the malls and not to mention the parade of Christmas holidays just around the corner. With all this on the go, it is heartwarming to see that there are still many young women looking for ways to make a difference. You’ve come to the right place!

Making a difference in the lives of others does not need to be a big heroic act or cost an arm and a leg! Even simple gestures, done with the greatest intentions can bring huge joy and really make a positive impact on the lives of others.

The list is endless, but here are a few acts that you can do to help towards making a difference in someone’s life.

  1. Donate any unused items (clothing, bedding, food, books, toys) to a local charity of your choice. They are clogging up space in your home and can still be put to good use by someone who is less fortunate than you
  2. Volunteer at your local animal shelter. Take the doggies for a walk
  3. Volunteer at a Children’s home or orphanage – read stories, play with the children – they love the individual attention and their happiness really is food for one’s soul!
  4. Visit the elderly. Many are “stranded” with no family or friends to visit them.  A cup of tea and your youthful energy is a breath of fresh air for them.
  5. Be a clown at the paediatric ward in your local government hospital.  Laughs and giggles are their best medicine! Many little one’s families are too far away for regular visits
  6. Bake biscuits / hand out sweets to the street children
  7. Donate blood – the blood banks never have too much and the demand rises during accident peak season
  8. Become an egg donor. Many people dream about becoming parents and having their own children. In all likelihood, having had a heartbreaking year fighting infertility, it is especially hard at this “family orientated” time of the year. By being an egg donor you are giving hope to people who long for and have struggled for a family of their own! You really can be their light at the end of a very dark tunnel and help make their dreams come true!

We know there are many things women can do to help people. If becoming an egg donor is something you would like to learn more about, please do get in touch, Nurture would love to welcome you to our program.

Why are egg donors compensated? Is the egg donor compensation enough?

piggybank4These are questions which are often raised by both potential egg donors as well as intended parents. When on the fence and still deciding if donating some of your precious eggs is right for you, some donors may initially think ”this is an easy way to make a quick buck.” With our extensive experience as SA’s top Egg Donor Agency we know this is not the case for many of our donors.

Whilst a couple of extra ronts can go a long way – our donors know that there is a very special recipient on the other end of the donation – a recipient who has probably been to hell and back a few times.  A recipient who has invested a huge amount – both financially and emotionally.  It is THIS that motivates our fabulous Nurture donors.

You know how you get some people who volunteer, who recycle, who seem to genuinely care about their fellow human beings? That is the type of donor we have on our database. Genuinely amazing people.

Nurture’s Egg Donors do receive a set compensation of R6,000 per donation cycle. This is to compensate them for their time, travel and effort during the donation process. The compensation is paid to them on the day of the egg retrieval, regardless of whether a successful outcome or not. The Southern African Society of Reproductive Medicine and Gynecological Endoscopy Regulations (SASREG.) have strict guidelines and protocol procedures, as well as set guidelines for compensation that Nurture abides by.

We do think that the compensation is sufficient for the egg donor’s time and commitment involved. Donors feel a tremendous sense of pride and happiness when they are able to help a recipient build the family they have struggled for. Egg donation really is a great opportunity to give back and make a remarkable difference in someone else’s world. This cannot be equated to in monetary value. As one donor stated “ The financial reimbursement I felt was eclipsed by the happiness I felt”.

Egg Donors are motivated for different reasons and there is no question that an extra R6,000 could make a difference for an egg donor at some stage in their life. At the time of donation, donors are not planning to create a child of their own so many feel that it is a selfless way they can make a difference for intended parents who desperately want a child to love.

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 Some of the amazing women who have decided being an egg donor is right for them, have taken a few moments to share with us why they have decided to be an egg donor.

“Being a mommy myself I know there is no greater gift I can give someone other than helping them become a parent. I myself can’t imagine the pain involved in not being able to become a parent and if there’s a chance that I can help, I would gladly love to give that gift :)”

“I would love to have the opportunity to help other parents experience the joy of children. Little angels to bless your day and fill your lives with love, happiness, sadness, joy and tears – pure pleasure in experiencing the miracle of a child. Helping women experience these gifts will fulfill my life”

“It has been something that I have been thinking about since becoming a young adult.  After having my first child, it made it so clear to me that I have great compassion for those couples out there that so desperately need an angel to make there lives blossom the way my children have changed mine.  I would feel honoured to help those who are in need of assistance.”

“Every month my eggs are flushed out of my system without a thought of what miracle they could become for someone else. I am a healthy, active, young 21 year old woman who currently is not using her eggs and I would like to help a couple/ woman who would love their own miracle. There are so many women out there who have good, working ovaries and beautiful children, but who do not appreciate the miracles they have been given and who unfortunately and sadly mistreat them. I want to give a life to people who are dedicated to raising and nurturing a family, but cannot do that on their own. The detail that goes into making a life is so precious, delicate and detailed beyond anyone’s imagination, how could anybody not think they’re making a difference by giving future parents a chance to raise their own human being who will become something great one day. I want to be a part of that design and sow a part of my love into that future little person. No one can ever have enough love.”

“I would love to become a donor to make a positive difference in someone else’s life. All I want to do is help where I can. It will be such an enriching experience to know that I could bring happiness and a blessing to a family” 

For more information on becoming an egg donor, please visit us here.

Or email us at info@nurture.co.za